When Mama’s away.

I have been working a lot this month.  There are two reasons for this.  First, the hospital went live with the government-mandated electronic medical record and we were all asked to work more.  And this is the time of year I naturally pick up more work because John has some time off and I can make some extra money for Christmas expenses, namely holiday groceries.  I have been working more than double my normal hours.  Today that lent itself to Daddy doing homeschool.  Tabitha asked him if they could have a picnic.  He wasn’t prepared for a picnic LUNCH, but he let them have an after-lunch picnic.  Or junk-food-carnival.  You can decide what to call it. 

At least he knows what is important… he took pictures for my blog to show Mommy what she missed.

Tabitha was so excited it was a buffet!  LOL.   That little green container at the end has orange peppers in it.  That must have been their token veggie!  I bet they had JOLT Cola in the cups! LOL.  HAHA – Actually – I just asked John.  He concedes it was a quarter can of Pepsi each!  ROFLOL. 

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At least Marie was praying for the junk food!

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These are some cute pics from yesterday.  Do you love how Tabitha sweeps the driveway?  I suppose that is how Donna Reed would have done it, if Donna Reed knew where to find a wheelbarrow.

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Johanna seems to be trying out as a role as a Nazarene, or a Galilean, or something.

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Random photos to make me smile

It IS a wonderful life, you know.
Look at these people I get to live with.  I have so much to be thankful for.

DSC_0007Look at this silly baby.  She would not keep sunglasses on all summer, nor safety glass on at the tour of Daddy’s factory.  But one Friday night she wore sunglasses in the house for 2 hours.
I am thankful for big sisters who keep babies safe when Mom is cooking in the kitchen.

 

 

 

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She also thinks smiling requires scrunching up her eyes.  I ♥ her.

 

 

 

This is how I found the kids ready for devotion one morning. 
They held their positions until I could get the camera.

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I am also grateful for piano teachers who play football with the kids.  And for princesses who pick out their own clothes.

And for a certain 7 year old, female, wide receiver.


 

 

 

 

 

 

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on their baby sister.

 

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And princesses who make funny faces no matter how many shots you take.

 

 

And for husbands who agree that $30 a ticket is not too much to pay for a night out with the kids every rare once in a while.  They are still on clouds 9, 10, and 11!

 

“It’s A Wonderful Life”

A few months ago John and I ordered tickets for a traveling dinner theater.  The Christian Radio Station that broadcasts throughout our area, the Family Life Network, was hosting the musical, “It’s a Wonderful Life,” in a number of venues throughout the region.  We quickly decided that this would be a great early Christmas present for our musical-loving children and ordered tickets for the show being produced 90 minutes west of us.  It wasn’t cheap, but it was an investment in family time.  It came at a good time for us.   There were only two other kids in the audience of about 270 people.   Dinner was served at 6:40PM.  We were so hungry!!!  Tabitha ate every last morsel of her salad despite the fact she hates to eat green food!  Maybe I should serve dinner that late every night.  The food was okay, the show was exceptional.  The cast was so vibrant and the story included a gospel message.  I can’t imagine that anyone in the audience could have left unimpressed with the show.  The kids were delighted.  Tabitha was waggling her arms during the big numbers.  Nigel declared the villain a “big stinker.”  Stewart and Marie kept beaming and laughing.  I am willing to bet that everyone leaving the play last night was EXHAUSTED!  The musical ended at 11:05PM.  That is not a typo.  We rolled into our driveway at 12:38AM.  Hanny slept at Nan’s house.  It was a wonderful night.  ♥ 

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I need to add a few more things to this post.

I have never seen the movie, “It’s a Wonderful Life.”  I saw a bit of it one night last winter as I was nursing the baby.  The scene I saw on TV last year was repeated word for word in the play last night.   I found myself in tears at the weight of burden that George Bailey felt when he was in despair.  After a lifetime of giving and giving and putting others first he was suddenly in the horrible situation of losing the few precious things he had in his life.  I was so moved by the story.   I hope to find the time to watch the movie.  I can’t imagine it living up to the life MUSICAL story we enjoyed last night, but I do want to see it if I can work it in. 

another day

some events in my life you just won’t read about on this blog
In the midst of the heavy storm here today I was able to gain refuge  from the torrents for
a few breaths of air and in those moments I saw things to be grateful for…

  • emails from sisters-in-Christ that remind me that there is hope in the One who holds me in His hands
  • cards from family and friends that throw me a lifeline and remind me that we don’t bear our trials alone
  • oatmeal cookies from a family that loves us and counts our loss as theirs, as well
  • God’s timing which seems implausible in some ways and absolutely perfect in others

Psalm 68 19-20:
Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens.  Our God is a God who saves;  from the Sovereign LORD comes escape from death.

Oh no You never let go,
through the calm and through the storm,
oh no You never let go ,
every high and every low,
oh no You never let go,
LORD You never let go of me.

There but for the grace of God go I

When teaching me not to be judgmental about something when I was a child, my father explained that phrase to me.  But for God’s grace our circumstances could be so much different.  

For the last few months John and the boys have been serving dinner once a week at the Open Door Mission.

Last night, after the team had set up, served and cleaned up, a family arrived at the door.  A woman with six children.  Stewart thought the oldest was about 9 and the youngest was 1.  They had JUST thrown out the last of the food!  They had four plates that had been prepared earlier as “hold-backs” in case someone comes in late.  So John and the boys quickly set a new table and brought the four plates of food to these seven people.  The mother asked John if they had any milk for her baby.  They don’t serve milk at the Open Door, just water with the meals. 

Meanwhile, in the kitchen, the cook and other volunteers began to assemble a care package for her.  John and the boys jumped in after delivering the meal to them.  John said they were just grabbing anything they could use.  They DID have boxes of powdered milk for her as well as many canned goods.  Nigel said the woman had a stroller.  I don’t know how she was getting around.  Really.

I asked John, “Where is she going to go?  Were they able to do anything for them?  They can’t sleep there.”  He recalled that he heard her speaking to a worker and it had been set up for her to stay in the Hotel Cadillac.  It is NOT a nice place.  NOT at ALL. 

Oh, please join me as I pray for this woman and her children.  May God have mercy on her. 

My boys learned a LOT last night.  More than I could ever teach them on my own.  Oh LORD Jesus, please come SOON.

more attempts at thanksgiving

On my way to the hospital last night I had to stop for gas.  It takes a while to fill up the tank on our big van.  As I stood there I thanked God that it wasn’t snowing or raining and I realized it was the first time all day I had thanked Him for anything.  Wow.
I remember when I was in grade 12 and my dad lost his job at Kodak.  I was extremely upset for days and days and days.  I remember my mom telling me that I had to thank God for his job loss.  What?  WHAT?  I thought she was crazy.  I was supposed to thank God for this horrible thing that happened to us!?  [Remember that was back when lay-offs and closings were not an everyday occurrence.]  I could not fathom thanking God for such a thing but my mom was steadfast in directing us to thank God in all things.
So today I am trying to be thankful.  I do have much to be thankful for.  A loving husband and best friend.  Five pretty awesome kids.  My extended family and friends. A warm house.  A vehicle.  Jobs for both of us.
That still felt a little too “safe.” 
Really – today – this WEEK what can I be thankful for?
  • Friends in green houses who answer their emails from their doctor’s office and “talk” you through a very rough day.
  • Friends and family who offer to go with you to the hard appointments [even when you decline their offers].
  • Friends who hold you up in prayer when you can’t begin to pray for yourself.
  • Friends and family who commit to praying for you and offer their help if you need it.
  • Unexpected phone calls and emails from people you never dreamt read your blog offering love and encouragement.
  • A smiling young man sheepishly delivering a box of food and his mom who made it for us when I didn’t even know she knew.
  • A lovely young daughter who dresses her baby sister in a coat and shoes and takes her outside to play without being asked while I prepare lunch.
  • A brave young son who killed a snake in our driveway/garage entry even while shaking and sobbing at his role as a man.
  • A doctor who respects my convictions.
  • Finding out other good things about the doctor God sent me to all those years ago.
  • In-laws who respect your possible need for privacy but who are eager to bring a meal.
  • Little House on the Prairie – to be watched while I take a nap.
  • A neighbor who chainsaws while I am trying to nap.
Okay – I am TOTALLY trying too hard with the last one.

Ephesians 5:20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,