Due Date–6/23

June 23rd was to be the due date for our first miscarriage.  The day – circled in a heart on my calendar – was creeping closer.  It couldn’t (nor should) be ignored, but then, WHAT?  Should I take the day (Saturday) off work?  Should we go somewhere and occupy myself.  Or should I work a long shift and keep myself busy?  Should I get balloons to release with the kids? Should I sit in my room and cry? Should I fast and pray?  It was supposed to be a special day – should it really now be just a nothing day?
I ended up signing up for a four hour morning shift.  One day it suddenly dawned on me – I pretty much had the Saturday off.  Maybe some friends could come over.  Some friends who we have been trying to have over for SIX months.  Could they possibly be free on such short notice?  GOD IS GOOD.  THEY WERE! 
So instead of trying to be so busy I didn’t think about it, or mourning so much that I missed a gorgeous summer day, we instead had an afternoon of fellowship, food, and fun.  Swimming, kickball, playground, even a sword fight or two.  Every toddler toy in the garage got utilized it seemed.  NICE.  Really nice. 
 
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The kids want to know, “When can we do it again?  When? When?”
Sigh
I didn’t point out to them it took six months to find a possible date. 
God is in the details, though.  He picked a great date for it to work out.
And I got flowers from a sweet little girl who told me, “They are real, so you can’t touch them.  Well, like this you can, but only a little.”
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AND – on another note –
For three weeks I have longed to share the story about the passing of a woman I loved a great deal.  D passed away on 6/3.  I am still so hopeful that I can share that one of these days when I get a minute to blog it properly.  But here is something so cool.  One of D’s daughters was expecting her first baby this month.  I found out Sunday morning that she had her baby, a son, on 6/23.  That makes my heart sing.  God saw fit to bless their awesome family on the same day that I was seeing an empty heart on my calendar. 
God is cool.

Tab’s tooth adventure

A few months ago we noticed a lump growing on Tab’s hard palate.  X-Ray revealed an extra tooth.  This was far better than the lump being a tumor, or even her regular adult tooth growing in so far back.
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Wednesday morning she and I went to the oral surgeon for an extraction.  Because of its location we were told the procedure would include pulling the two front baby teeth, then slicing open the skin on the roof of her mouth and pulling out the extra permanent tooth.  Then she would have a few stitches.
Her analgesia was inadequate.  The gas they gave her barely touched her senses and she wriggled in pain through the novocain injections.  He gave more and more and she didn’t respond well.  He pulled out the first baby tooth.  I was shocked that she bucked at all; she has had other teeth pulled without so much as a flinch, as have Stewart and Marie.  This oral surgeon’s pain control techniques are not as good as their primary dentist.  Thankfully, not only had I not been asked to leave the room, I was encouraged to hold her hands and arms to comfort her.  Turns out I even had to lie on her legs a bit.  As he was pulling the second tooth, which based on our plan, I thought was her other baby tooth, she responded by arching her back and crying out.  I was steeling myself to interject, “If she is having this much trouble with the baby teeth, how in the world will she tolerate the cutting for the extra tooth?”  Just then, the tooth he was working on came out – he had gone after the permanent tooth.  It was exposed enough it did not require cutting.  THANK YOU, LORD. 
Since that one was out, I reckoned the worst was over and the second baby tooth would be a breeze.  It wasn’t quite a breeze, but it only took a few seconds.  He did give her two stitches as her mouth had gaping holes.
After they left the room, I presented her with a new SuperGrover doll that I had bought her at Sesame Place just for this occasion.  We soon headed home and dealt with her recovery.  It was ugly.  She was miserable for a few hours.  She watched a movie on the portable DVD player in Daddy’s bed. 
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She ate about 90 minutes afterward.  As John said, “Finally, a meal she didn’t complain about.”
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But I, I mean SHE, endured it and was swimming two hours later. 
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Wanna see the teeth?
This is the first baby tooth.
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This is the second baby tooth – the last one pulled.
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THAT monster is the one that was in the roof of her mouth!
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Crazy.
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“Everyone loves Marineland.”

Or at least really, really likes it!

We had not been there in 5 years.  I was so eager to go back.  The last four years we had Seabreeze passes and I could never justify going anywhere else.  We drove up in the morning and stayed from open to just about close.  It was gorgeous out.  The park is HUGE.  Just huge.  Not tons and tons of stuff, just HUGE.  Lots and lots of beautiful walking.  A stark contrast to downtown Niagara Falls. 

The kids went on every ride but two.  One of those was closed and one of those was outside the mommy-and-daddy-comfort-factor.  Only one child was disappointed by the restriction. Winking smile

They rode the medium sized rides.  They road the thrill rides.  They rode the family style/kid rides.  They rode and rode.  And despite there being over 1600 school kids in the park (!) we never waited in line. 

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Johanna only went on one ride.  She asked to go on others, but then would get turned off as we got into the seats.  You can see she isn’t all that wild about this one, anyway!!!

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Mommy’s favorite part is the whales.  I was a mite disappointed, however.  To me, Marineland means Kandu, Nootka, and a host of other orcas.  Today Marineland has only one killer whale, Niska.  She is now 40 and performs no more.  She did have offspring, but sadly, none of her calves lived past a few years old.  She is living out her retirement in Friendship Cove.DSC_1832

We saw lots and lots of beluga whales.  They procreate and raise calves much more quickly than orcas.  The mother whale raises the calf until they are about three years old.  Orcas raise their calves until they are about 7. 

One of the beluga babies was 7 days old.  One was 2 days old.  TWO DAYS OLD.  It was huge.  It was beautiful seeing all the mommy-baby pairs swimming together.

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Marie and Tabitha fed and pet Aurora.  The boys had opted not to.  I loved this.  The males are brighter white.  That whale next to Aurora is Clyde.  He got one of Aurora’s fish that one of my girls dropped.  Clyde’s gentle hanging-on encouraged Aurora to swim away and back, away and back, a few times.  That blessed us, because it extended my girls’ “time” at their station and we got to ask more questions, etc.  We were not rushed.  Thanks Clyde and Aurora. 

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Stewart was delighted to feed and pet the deer.  Actually, I think they all were, but Stewart was the one who said a few times afterward, “I can’t believe I pet a deer!” 

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CHECK OUT THIS 5 SECOND VIDEO!!  Smile

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A few things about the park made me a little sad.   As I said the grounds are HUGE.  They have had plans for expansion for over 10 years and never have started them.  I think that they just can’t generate enough money to really get ahead.  The park is SO well kept up.  The buildings and façades that have been there since I was a child are so well maintained and you can just see the vision that someone must have had for the park.  Yet, in the front of the park there is a lovely aquarium and indoor show/seating area.  I remember seeing shows in there in the early 90s with my friend from college.  The stadium is still there and in excellent shape.  The whole building is gorgeous.  But they no longer have shows in there.  The reason is because they have four aging harbour seals and four aging sea lions.  These eight are living out their retirement in the pools in the stadium.  I am super-pleased that they don’t just take them out back and shoot them when they get too old.  But it seemed so stagnant for so vibrant a facility.  Connected to this area was a dining room that hasn’t been used in “years.”  Yet it was spic and span.  No points taken off for filth anywhere. 

None of this is eternally important.  I realize that.  Winking smile  But you know how it is when something isn’t what it was when you were a kid, right?  And I just love aquariums and sea animals.  I would love to see all their expansion dreams fulfilled.  Not more than I’d like to see hunger eradicated or abortions ceased… but you know.  Winking smile

 

I had fully intended to pay $5 a person more as we left the park to get an annual pass and return in August for a second visit.  The kids all said they felt like they had done it all and didn’t need to come back.  Poo!  But, John didn’t feel like he needed to come back that soon, either.  So we won’t. 

Surprise trip

I packed when they were busy.
I packed when they weren’t home.
I packed furiously, and under the cover of Bible-study.
I was stealth-Mommy.
And we surprised them with a little vacation.
We hadn’t planned on any trips this summer.  Originally, we anticipated a new June baby.  Then, it was an October due date.  We committed ourselves to working on the house, instead.  But we really like to travel.  And we REALLY like amusement parks.
And John had gobs of points on his Priority Club card from traveling more than usual in 2011.  So, we booked a fast trip to Sesame Place, in Langhorne, PA, AND DIDN’T TELL THE KIDS.
After church on 6/10 we got into the discreetly packed van and started to drive another route home (after a quick stop at Walmart…)

Restaurants in fancy malls.
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Hotel swimming pools.
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Posing with foilage.
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Riding Big Bird’s Carrousel
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I have no idea what this is…
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“Elmo goes up and down, up and down, up and down.”
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Nets to climb.
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Blocks to carry.
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Lounge chairs to relax in.
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Waterslides to conquer.
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Peek-a-bug to work REALLY hard to keep my food down afterward.
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THE coolest family water ride ever.  (Just ask Tabitha.)
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Characters to meet…
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“Monsters” to dodge.
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Ernie’s bed to bounce on… (If you are 7 and under…)
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Parades to watch.
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Hotels… (sigh… I hate hotels.)
 
Tweedle bug cars to “drive.”  (With a little help from a big brother.)
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It rained… a lot… the second day.  But we got to meet many characters and the kids OWNED the waterslides. 
We ARE die-hard amusement park fans.  There is no doubt about it.  We did NOT let the (steadily coming) rain stop our fun.  It never hit downpour… okay – maybe for a few minutes.  But there was NO thunder.  So the waterslides were open.  I love my weird life.
 
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The rain did keep the crowds away and we left around 2:45 P.M. having done everything we could.
We even got to stop at Pizza Hut on the way home.
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Nigel lamented a bit that it was too short a vacation.
I told him not to think of it as a short vacation, but as a long field trip.
It was our seventh trip there in 11 years.  2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2008, 2012.  It is likely our last trip.  The bigger kids had awesome attitudes and never acted, “too old,” but they really are aging out.  And it has gotten hideously expensive.  It was great to get away with the family.  Really, really great.  Smile
 

What comes up… must come down

When we moved in 5 years ago, we got busy updating the “must do” rooms first.  That included the kids’ rooms and the laundry room.  Soon after we did the master bedroom, the third kids’ room, and some bathrooms.  Then we tackled the BIG job of the kitchen wallpaper stripping and HIRED someone to paint the kitchen, living room, downstairs hallways, stairwell, and upstairs hallway.  He did it while we were away and it was like coming home to “Home Makeover.” 

That was all in the first eight months.

Since then, we’ve done the family room twice, the last of the “kids’” rooms, and the kitchen a second time.  And we finished the basement. 

It was finally time to attack the dining room.

The reason the dining room lasted this long was because we pretty much liked it. 

The house we left looked like this. 

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And this was the house we bought! (The old owner’s furniture.)

YOU CAN SEE WHY WE DIDN’T HURRY TO CHANGE!  LOL.

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But the demolition has begun.

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I had great helpers!

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The project will take some time.

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The walls are a bit marred underneath, seemingly from PRIOR wallpaper removal.  There are score marks and bits of the dry wall are missing.

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But I hope to have it done by July 6th. 

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Does that look safe?

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The coolest part was that the second day, I didn’t even have to ask them to work at it. 

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I used a steamer to get the glued on layer off.  Burnt my foot, too.

Don’t ask how.

TO BE CONTINUED…..

Princess-ing

I have taken to buying flower-girl type dresses at the Goodwill Store for the girls to play princess-dress-up in.  For $3.00 – $7.00 I have picked up gorgeous dresses that could have easily cost 15-20 times that amount. 

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And they love them!

“Park-ing”

DSC_1105I am making an effort to get to parks.  There are so many great parks in our area, and we have been averaging two parks a week.  This week it was easy as a friend from church had organized a mini-gathering.  My big four were the oldest by far, but they seemed to share the equipment and play with well with all the much younger kids.  At least, I think they did.  It was fun.  Parks are fun.  Johanna tires ME out at them, though.  I am not as young as I once was.

 

 

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