Chore Chart…

Surprisingly, the new chart was met with no gnashing of teeth or renting of clothes.  As a matter-of-fact, they were down-right chipper about the whole thing!

Does that mean I could have added more?  Winking smile

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(The manager’s job is to go around as dinner is being worked on and see that all the chores were done.  This is the time to remind someone if their chores haven’t been completed.  I’ll let you know how it works!”)

“Laura” and me and our wrinkle in time.

The calendar had “Laura Ingalls Wilder Weekend” written on it for the past six months.  We had planned on it being a family day.  Yesterday, John jokingly asked if he had to go.  Later in the day, Marie asked if she had to go.  Hmmm.  Really?  Marie?  She LOVES Genesee Country Village & Museum.  Yes, really.  She said she didn’t want to go tomorrow.  Hmmm.  Okay.  Later I came out and asked Nigel.  He said, “It’s fun, but I’d rather not go tomorrow.”  GET OUT!  Still later, I asked Stewart.  He said he’d go if he had to, but he’d rather stay home. 

I was astonished. 

This left Tabitha and I.  We were both VERY eager to go.  I now think God was taking the longing out of the hearts of my other children so that Tabitha and I could have a special day together.  Once she realized it was just going to be she and I, she couldn’t stop talking about our special day.  This morning, as I was coming down the stairs, I heard her say to John, “I hope Mommy wears a dress.”  She had on her pioneer dress.

I know I’ve said it on here before.  But I LOVE the Genesee Country Village.  I love it.  I wonder if I would ever get tired.

So we packed a lunch and headed there for our special day.  We held hands and we rode the “trolley” (tractor-pulled wagon) – two things we can’t do when I have a stroller.  As a matter-of-fact, we rode and rode the trolley.  As in, all the way around the circuit.  It didn’t really take us anywhere.  I let her be the one who decided the order we did things, and I didn’t even complain when her routes had us ricocheting around the property. 

She helped make corn meal in a pioneer kitchen.

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And cooked me dinner in an 1850’s home, too.

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Soup.

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And bread.

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She stopped to sweep the hearth.

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Before putting on the finishing touches.

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She ironed.

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And we took a stagecoach ride. 

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We had a picnic lunch in the car.  She got to sit in the front.

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And we met some 13 month old oxen.

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She tried out a wagon both as a driver and a passenger.

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And we paused for some coloring.

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We visited a 1700’s school house and I forgot to take a photo.  We later visited the 1800’s school house.

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She cleaned up to help prepare bread, then decided she’d skip that.

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And instead she did some laundry.

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She helped a man count cucumbers that he was preparing to pickle.

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And made butter with his wife.

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Mommy was getting tired.  As we peeked in at some chickens I calculated how much energy I had left.

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And I determined only ice cream would give me enough pep to finish up and keep me awake to drive home.
She ate Road Runner Raspberry and I had Peach Cobbler.  She decided mine tasted, “Way much better.”  She might be right.  The Peach Cobbler was amazing.

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And we stopped by the store to let her have a peppermint stick for the ride home.  Unprovoked, she asked if she could take four home for the other kids. 

During the day she opted not to participate in the races and games.  She opted not to be in the Children’s Promenade.  She kept things low key and I could see her taking in EVERYTHING.  I expect to see her playing it with her imagination in the days to come.

In all we had six hours together.  Actually – more than seven if you count our chatter-filled rides to and from.
Her exhaustion set in about 2 miles from home when she started to cry that she couldn’t get the elastic out of her braid.  The tired tears rolled as we rolled down the driveway.  She pepped up a little when we looked at these pictures and she started sharing stories with her Daddy and siblings. 

My favorite part was the stagecoach.  No, actually, my favorite was one-on-one with my Easter Bunny. 

hard stuff

I had two emails from two dear friends today.  Both dealing with hard stuff.  Let downs, disappointments, misunderstandings.
They are wresting with the enemy.
They will wait on God. 

For my friends I will pray:

Romans 12:12
Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
James 1:12
Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.

Gidd'yap?

Can you see the pails of water, and the jump ropes tied to the bike and scooter?

That’s how Tabitha secures and waters her horses.

🙂

Gidd’yap?

Can you see the pails of water, and the jump ropes tied to the bike and scooter?

That’s how Tabitha secures and waters her horses.

🙂

IT IS A GOOD DAY!

We had not known where our parachute was since sometime last year. We thought maybe we took it to the beach, but truly we were not 100% on that either.

I’d been thinking a lot about it this summer. I asked God to help me remember who I had lent it to. Nothing.

Yesterday I prayed that God would help me find it if it was lost.

Today, I did not think about it once. Then as I was hanging laundry and needing hangers I opened the rarely used front closet and reached for an apparently empty hanger. But it was heavy. There was something attached. A nylon bag.

With a parachute.

Photos

I hadn’t uploaded photos in three weeks.  That is bad for me. 

Here are some shots exhibiting cuteness.

Their first matching clothing, er, jammies.  I don’t know who is the most proud.  They love matching, big time.

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For Marie’s birthday we had a pinata.  At first, Johanna was a bit concerned about us all beating a cupcake!  Then she decided it looked like fun.  At one point a wayward piece of candy came flying out of the pinata.  She was delighted to see confections in the grass!

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I did not even mean for there to be 8 flowers.  Subliminal!

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During the heat wave, I asked my son (who is often cold – hence the jeans) to water the plants. 

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I guess that warmed him up some.

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And then there was Emily’s Sprinkle.   Do you love the ducky punch?

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There were two more tables of food, besides!

People I love and who love me.  How lovely.

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The celebration was wonderful. 

And that concludes this random post.

p.s   I need a hair cut.

How am I doing?

I’ve been asked a number of times this last week how I am doing.  I very much appreciate that people who love and care for me are checking in on me and finding out how to pray best.  Thank you.

I’m sad and I’m happy.  It is strange to feel both.

The first three days I think I was in a bubble of shock.  I never expected to find out that one of our twins had died.   I never even entertained the thought such a loss might happen.  The bubble burst sometime Sunday as I was preparing for the Baby Sprinkle I was throwing yesterday.   Assembling favors, writing out bingo cards, and organizing baby accoutrements was a bit too much for my grieving self.  As a dear friend reminded me of miracles and shared that looking at her newborn son gave witness to God’s mercies I panicked and wondered if I would ever hold a new baby of my own again.  Or will I need to wait until it is my time to be a grandmother before I know that joy once more.  It scared me. 
I’m still a little scared.
There is a little baby still growing.  My friend lent me her Doppler and I was able to hear Ducky’s fetal heart rate.  It isn’t easy to find, him/her being so small still.  But it registers loud and clear and in the 155-165 range when I do find it.  (Yes, I know, must be a girl.)  But a strong heart beat at almost 12 weeks doesn’t guarantee happily ever after.  Nothing does. 
It’s.Been.A.Hard.Year.
I’ve been to a LOT of funerals this year.  We’ve lost three babies.  I’ve prayed for a lot (and I mean a lot) of people suffering loss.  There has been a lot of cancer.  My kids are asking hard questions about grief and we are all growing.  We are seeking refuge together.  I am rereading and rereading a LOT of Psalms. 
Last week a brave sister-in-Christ went to Heaven after battling a brain tumor for 5 years.  At church Sunday it suddenly dawned on me that there IS going to be lots and lots of loss around me the rest of my life.  It’s just going to be that way.  I am getting older.  And each year I know and love more people than the year before.  As my circle grows, the risk of losing people, or hearing that people I love are hurting is going to grow and grow.  The burden to pray is going to grow and grow.  YES, it does give God a lot of arenas to display His glory, but I won’t always get to see it.  I will just have to trust that He is working in the lives of the people I am praying for. 
And He is working in my life as my friends pray for me and as people I will never meet pray for me. 
How are His mercies evident in these Disciples lives?  We get up each morning.  We ask the LORD to help us live for Him that day.  We pray that we have God-glorifying actions and words.  We fall down.  We get up.  And we REVEL in the knowledge that this is not our home.  There is more.  There is something better.  Those we’ve said goodbye to are in the presence of the KING of Kings.  Walking faith-FULLY toward that prize we can pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and know that it is God’s grace alone that helps us perform the duties before us.  For me, the mercy I am seeing these days comes in the form of functioning.  I am functioning.  I am getting us where we need to be, doing what we need to do, addressing what we need to address.  That is a victory at this point. 
Hopefully, we will see mercy in the form of a new baby boy or girl come February.   But I can’t really think that far ahead.  I am just in this for day to day.  Today I am with child.   And it makes me smile.  
My kids keep hugging me and asking if Ducky is okay.  They ask, “Is it okay if I hug you like this; will I hurt Ducky?”  “Could it kill Ducky if you don’t get enough sleep?” “Will Ducky be sick because the other baby died?”  “Does Ducky know about the other baby dying?”   I trust God is using this to grow them in some way, shape, or form.  I’m too close to the situation to see it.  But I believe He is.
Thanks for asking.
Thanks for praying. 
My prayer for today is the same as it has been the last four years.  “LORD, help me to want what You want me to want.”