Racking up the miles

We woke by 6 A.M. and got ourselves mobilized.  It was our first morning of the re-pack/re-load process and it wasn’t pretty.  What was fabulous was the massive breakfast they offered.  Every palate was pleased as we ate and ate.  It was awesome.

We got started – later that we wanted – (this will become a repeating theme) – and headed from Fort Smith, AR to Albuquerque, NM.

It is essentially a straight line through Oklahoma, the Texas panhandle, and into New Mexico.  Sights thrilled us as we took in places we’d never been before.  But we didn’t stop, per se.

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We played some games, read some books, watched some movies, and just kept moving.

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We stopped at Walmart for more food at lunch time and enjoyed crispy fried chicken, potato salad, and cookies. 

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West, west. west.  We just kept moving west.

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We drove directly to Dickey’s BBQ pit in Albuquerque for dinner.  Dickey’s BBQ Pit is a chain we’d discovered on our last road trip to Oregon in 2015.  We were eager to eat there again.

As we approached the building, other would-be patrons warned us they were closed.  The manager popped his head out the door to explain they were closing because they were out of meat and most of their sides.

We tried to find something fast… and it wasn’t fast.  We asked our cell phones to help us find a Longhorn Steakhouse, but it said it was 13 miles away.  We could see an Outback Steakhouse from where we were, and with a little finagling, found or way to it.  In the end we spent WAY too much money and time for a so-so meal.  We barely got to the hotel in time for a quick swim for a few of us. 

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Katriel fell asleep as we headed to the hotel.  She stayed asleep through bed changes and well into the morning.

Elvis, Johnny, and pizza

After breakfast at Brother Junipers, we headed about 15 miles down the road to Graceland.  We all knew we were going.  We’d talked about it for months.  None of us were prepared for how fabulous it was. 


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TCB stands for “Taking Care of Business” – one of Elvis’s mottos.


The admission prices are ridiculous, but we knew that going in.  Thankfully, the cashier reminded us we could have a AAA discount with a valid card.


As it was shortly after opening, the incoming crowd was steady.  We were instructed to head to a theater which showed a 7 minute movie on the life of Elvis Presley.  I got a little teary as Elvis always reminds me of my dad.  We exited the theater and followed the directions of the staff to an outdoor queue.

They then took a photo of us they offered to sell to us for $35 an hour or so later.  We queued for a bus over to the mansion.  Upon entering the bus we were all handed headphones and mini iPads for our upcoming tours. 


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We boarded the bus for the mansion and again had to queue to enter the mansion.  It was at least 95F and we not only had to wait for the bus in front of us to get the front-step-spiel, but a bus of VIP package guests also got to enter before us.  We finally entered the mansion, and for the rest of the day we had no more waiting.


The iPad system is really cool.  It occasionally didn’t detect where we were on the property, but for the most part it was fabulous.  Major facts and cool tidbits were narrated by John Stamos.  You could spend as much time as you wanted in each room, and there were little extra links on the iPad that you could hit if you wanted to.  For example, when you were looking into a certain room, if you hit one of the camera icons, you might then see a photo of Elvis sitting on the couch in front of you playing his guitar.


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Elvis designed this room on the first floor for his parents, including a walk-in closet for his beloved mother.


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The narrator said Elvis would position himself for a grand entrance into the foyer when guests arrived. 


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This TV, though… LOL


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The stairs to the basement.


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I want this rec room!  There are plenty of seats on these couches!

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After we exited the mansion, we rode the bus back over to the main complex.  We then realized we had barely scratched the surface of what was there.  We spent the next few hours looking through his cars, clothing, and other memorabilia, including a section devoted to his military service.  We also enjoyed the wide variety of shopping experiences.  They sincerely enjoyed the shopping and Nigel had a very hard time deciding what to treat himself to. 


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I smiled to myself as I took this photo next to the Johnny Cash outfit in the area of people who were influenced by or worked with Elvis.  Nigel had no idea where we’d be going later.


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We thought about grabbing some ice cream, but decided instead to just get ourselves over to a Walmart for lunch food. 


We enjoyed our first car lunch:  sandwiches made at 75mph, with macaroni and potato salads, chips, and — cookies!


From there we lazily drove to Dyess, AR.  No one under 46 knew where we were going.


Our GPS indicated we would get there at 3:05 P.M. 
The website said the last tour left at 3:00 P.M.  I called them about 10 minutes out and explained we were coming from NY and were likely going to be 5 minutes late.  They joyfully offered to hold the tour for us!


Nigel saw the sign about five miles before we got there:
Johnny Cash Boyhood Home


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This area boasts a rich history of swamp-land-turned-family farms. 


From Wikipedia:
Dyess Colony was established in Mississippi County, Arkansas in 1934 as part of the New Deal efforts of Franklin D. Roosevelt to provide economic relief to ameliorate suffering in the Great Depression. The experiment was the largest such community-building experiment established by the federal government during these years.


Basically – families who met the criteria and were willing to take on the arduous work of converting swamp land into farms were given a house, a chicken coop, and a small barn.

 The old theatre still stands


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and the colony center administration building has been turned into a museum and meeting space.


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They still have the original projector from the theatre house.


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Can I tell you how much I love the fact that Nigel just happened to have on his Johnny Cash t-shirt?


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After watching the movie that explained both the New Deal effort and how the restoration was completed (including oversight by Johnny Cash’s sisters) we looked around the museum before getting on the bus to head over to his house on Plot #266.  We were joined by one other couple.  The woman’s mother was raised in the house next door to J.R. Cash and she was eager to see what it may have looked like.


Our bus driver was the former mayor of Dyess.


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We left Dyess around 4:30 P.M. and headed west to Fort Smith, Arkansas.  We had planned to grab dinner at a KFC buffet, but we wanted to swim.  A few miles out we called in pizzas, so after we got to our Homewood Suites, we unpacked the van, gobbled up pizza, and hit the pool and/or showers. 


By the time we hit the bed, most of us had been up well over 24-hours except for some nap time in the van the night before.


Let the good times roll. 

On your mark… get set..

Poke along… 

although we’d planned for months and had our packing done, we could NOT seem to get out on time. Starting almost an hour late is never a fun way to start out, but we didn’t lament it.

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I started out in the back row with the two little girls, and John drove with Tab shotgun. 

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Around 9PM Stewart and I took the front row and John tried to sleep.  I say tried because nine people in a van is not the Waldorf Astoria.  PFT.  It’s not even Motel 6.  But he grabbed some sleep as did the others – Tab on the floor.  At 3AM I scooted back to the floor in the back and John took over with Nigel as his copilot.  It’s not easy, but it’s part of the adventure.  It’s fun to wake up in the morning and be states and states away.  At around 8AM we pulled into Brother Juniper’s in Memphis Tennessee.  I’d found the restaurant on TripAdvisor weeks earlier and a call from John encouraged us that we’d have a good chance of Stewart finding a delicious, safe meal.

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My black bean burrito was one of the best breakfasts I’ve ever, ever had.  I’m going to rate it higher than cruise ship breakfasts, only because you rarely get Mexican breakfast options on a ship.

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Johanna and Katriel shared a plate of Cinnamon Roll Pancakes.  I purposefully did not try it. 

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Katriel got a little wiggly by the end of the meal and the waiter noticed her and started a conversation.  From about ten feet away, he lobbed a small butter packet to her.  She laughed with glee and picked it up and SHOT IT BACK.  Her toss had the perfect arch and caught every one of us by surprise.  HIS Baseball, here she comes!

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With happy tummies, we piled back into the van and moved on to our first activity…

Stewart’s graduation

I am pausing in my trip report to back track to Stewart’s graduation day.  (It was also the day for Nigel and Marie’s recital, but that will be its own entry once I get the video from my sister [who is out of town herself.])
Many years ago, before I’d taken an actual looooong distance road trips, I had offered to my friend the analogy that homeschooling was like a road trip.  Those early years of homeschooling were really, really hard at times.  We had lots of little kids and the blessing of new babies and the landscape of homeschooling changed not year-to-year, but often day-to-day.  Just getting through the basics of meals and housekeeping can keep a mom of a smaller family pretty busy, but adding homeschooling and babies to the picture offered me challenges that I was not always equipped for. 
After a tough week, I remember talking to a non-homeschooling friend and likening it to a road trip: 
Some days are as though you are stuck in traffic, or construction, or on a pot-hole invested room behind a garbage truck.  Or the rain is driving down and the wipers aren’t working and you missed your exit.  Thankfully, this is not the bulk of it.
Some days are highlights.  These are like when you are at the beach, or the theme park, or the museum, or that restaurant.  There are more of these days, thankfully.
But a lot of the days?  Hmmm – well – in fact, MOST of the days are like when you are working down the highway.  Tires rotating, mile after mile, as you make progress toward the destination.  Churning and working at it.  There are some noteworthy things you want to remember – you snap a picture or two – but you keep on moving.  You clock in progress as you steadfastly pursue the goal.
As Stewart’s graduation came into view my mind could not help but recall details of the last 13 years.  Too many to record in a post, but surprisingly easy to call up in my mind.  The tears over math.  The giggles over home-made productions.  The read-alouds, the field trips, the science projects.  The lectures and the laughter.  And so many hugs. 
May was so busy with me working a ton.  And with the Big Road Trip looming, there was a lot on my planning plate. Somehow we preserved graduation weekend and worked at it together.  And before we knew it – there we were – John, Stewart, and I, driving toward the Geneva for the ceremony. 
The last leg of our trip.
I can not tell you how many times I have fallen head first into Galatians 6:9 –

And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.

Somehow – by the grace of God – we did not give up.  I had some flashes of giving up before grade 9… Oh Jesus – THANK YOU FOR SUSTAINING US!
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Johanna’s 8th birthday party

Johanna loves people through and through.  She has been blessed with so many lovely friends and many of them joined us for her 8th birthday party.
Daddy and the boys were camping, so Marie and Tab helped me pull it off.

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Mother's Day

After church we dined on pizza and headed to the zoo.
I have no idea how many times we’ve been there… but in November, as I dropped Johanna off at a friend’s house, Katriel said to me, “Mom?  Do you know where a zoo is?”
I was horrified!
”Um, yes, Katriel.  There is one near where Mama works.”
Katriel gasped.  “Can we see it someday?”

So, for Christmas, we gave Katriel and Johanna a pass to the zoo.  We broke it in today.

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Mother’s Day

After church we dined on pizza and headed to the zoo.
I have no idea how many times we’ve been there… but in November, as I dropped Johanna off at a friend’s house, Katriel said to me, “Mom?  Do you know where a zoo is?”
I was horrified!
”Um, yes, Katriel.  There is one near where Mama works.”
Katriel gasped.  “Can we see it someday?”

So, for Christmas, we gave Katriel and Johanna a pass to the zoo.  We broke it in today.

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Mother Daughter Retreat

In January, a friend from church shared information about the May Mother Daughter Retreat at Camp Hickory Hill in Varysburg, NY.  We’d never gone on any such event, and it did not have a limit of one child per mom, so I decided I’d embrace my newly acquired camping gene and sign us up.  I also told my friend Lindsay about the weekend and she signed up to join us. 

It was pretty cold and rainy as we drove down, but we met our friends at Mark’s for dinner and continued on to our destination. 

I didn’t take photos of our lodging, but our church had a large enough group that we were placed in a lovely building right next to the bathrooms!  SCORE!

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We headed to the game room for a while

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As we were playing games, my girls rushed to the windows.  They saw princesses walking by.  It wasn’t long before we headed up to the fellowship hall to see what was going on.

The theme for the weekend was Princesses…. since we ARE daughters of the KING of KINGS.

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We played a “who am I?” game where we had to ask questions to see if we could guess who we were tagged as.

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We had singing, and some games, and ice cream!

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It was maybe the worst night’s sleep ever…
Having JUST gotten over the bad back I had endured for about a week, the rock-hard bunk I slept in was enough to cause me to have spasms hour after hour through the night.

My little girls and I were awake bright and early, so I took them out and around to keep the cabin quiet.

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We headed back as others were rising, and then we all enjoyed breakfast at the hall.

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I realized why my purse was so heavy!  Thank you, Stewart, for getting me the flashlight, etc., I may have needed.

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Tab and Janessa are special buddies.

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Our first assigned activity was archery.  This was a lot of fun.

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We then did kayaking and canoeing.  And then Katriel met this “friend.”  (She often embraces the scary to get ahead of it.  Not a bad tactic, if it works.)

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We had fun doing Nerf wars.

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Katriel stayed on top of the ammo.

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Lunch was excellent!

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Finally it was time to zip line.  This was TOO MUCH FUN!!

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Why yes.  Even my five year old tried it!

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We did a few other things, including a few minutes of dress-up with friends.

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I love this picture!  The Butler and Nickels ladies.

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