A (sadly) pictureless post of a day that brought great gladness.

For at least a handful of years I have seen emails requesting help with the food and gift distribution at the R Family Mission each December.  And for as many years I have not been able to help out.  John was able to one year, but it has never worked out for me to go.  Well, this year things just lined up.  My mom was willing and able to stay with the three younger girls.  And John was already scheduled to be off for the day that they were distributing this year.  So he, the older three kids, and I signed up to help out for a two hour window of time and I was so looking forward to seeing how God might use us.

We managed to get out of the house on time and using the address listed for the ministry we managed to get to their headquarters ahead of schedule.  The parking lot was all but empty.  But as we were pulling in, two other vehicles had also just pulled in.  One was a man with a big truck and another was an SUV with 5 members of the McQuaid hockey team.  We entered through the front door and found someone to direct us to the kitchen.  It didn’t quite look like what we expected.  A fairly quiet building with seemingly nothing much going on.  We found out that the truck needed to be unloaded.  So, just like in the olden days when people passed water buckets down and back a line to put out a fire, we all got into a line to unload the truck.  By passing, passing, passing them along, we helped unload about 100 hams.  Frozen hams.  Right from the back of the truck into the freezer.  After the meat was unloaded, John decided he’d best ask a few questions.  We were afraid we were in the wrong place.  John explained to the man who had driven the truck over what it was WE thought we were supposed to be doing.  Turns out that for this operation the RFM partnered with another local ministry and used THEIR building, about a mile away, for distribution.  “But,” the man said, “You aren’t in the wrong place at all.  God sent you here.”  And then we went back to work.  See, in addition to the ham, there were about 100 boxes of food that had to come off the truck.  So.  We stood in our line again.  Imagine a truck with it’s big door open.  Then imagine a young high school hockey player lifting a box off the piles and into the arms of another young high school hockey player.  Then imagine player 2 handing the package to player three, who then hands it off to player four.  Then player four hands the box to player five.  And player five hands the box off to Marie.  Marie.  My nine-year-old joy-filled little girl stood alongside boys twice her age (and adults 4-5 times her age) to unload 100 boxes for families in need.  The boxes went from her to me, to John, to Nigel, to a worker, to Stewart, to the last worker.  A nine-year-old girl.  Can you imagine Jesus’ smile that morning? 

Well, let me tell you about her smile.  The boxes weren’t exceedingly heavy.  They were a little awkward, but they weren’t full to the brim.  And they had food in them.  We like food.  And Marie started commenting on them after about the 40th box.  And she had me in stitches.  First there was, “Oooo! Mac and cheese.” And, “Oooo! Noodles.”  And, “Apples.”  Then, “Ah.  Something I’ve never seen before.”  Then after another two dozen boxes, she turns to me with the box and says, “One handed!”  After I burst out laughing, she then says, “No handed.”  John and I were dying.  All with a giddy smile and never missing a beat.  She didn’t drop a box.  (She and Stewart had both dropped a ham or two earlier.)  The boys were also pretty smiley.  They stood closer to the ministry workers and had some conversations as they piled these 100 boxes up and up and out and out over a reception area floor.

We finished with the truck emptying and then followed the two vehicles over to the distribution center to see what we could do there. 

There wasn’t much to be done.  We were given a job of breaking down unused boxes.  This was something we are good at – dismantling things.  We loaded the cardboard into a truck, too.  Then they asked us to pass out bags of extra produce to the people that were waiting for their boxes of food and the gift bags for the kids that were registered.  People eagerly accepted the bags of produce and it wasn’t long before the bags were gone.  There wasn’t much else for us to do, but we hung around a little longer.  I’m not sure we were terribly vital, or if the kids had any earth-shattering life experiences, but I sincerely enjoyed my rare opportunity to do “works”.  I know my prayers are just as important, but it does feel awesome to exercise my arms and legs for His work. too.

And it was SUPER awesome to see my kids involved, especially to see my 9-year-old daughter keep pace with those big hockey players. 

*sigh* I wish I had had my camera.

Tie Dye Project (for Disney vacation)

We are planning a trip to Florida for 2014.  We hope to spend two weeks on vacation renting a house in the Kissimmee area.  We have a four-night Disney Cruise Line trip in the midst and then plan to visit the WDW parks a few days, as well.  (This might change.)

On our last two trips we wore these matching shifts. 

This is 2007.  (Ignore the date stamp… LOL.)

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This was 2011.  (I had to make some new shirts for new members of our travel party.)

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We get TONS of compliments from other guests and the CMs.  (CM stands for Cast Members which is what Disney calls its employees.)

These old shirts were not made by tie-dying, but instead by a fabric paint that comes in a spray pump.  It is made by Tulip.  It was a great way to make shirts, but it took a LOT of time.  And the cost added up quickly as the paint bottles aren’t really designed for a group this size!  We DID get to wear them over two trips and the kids have worn a lot in the mean time.  But they’ve faded and we have a new member of our travel party again, so we decided to try something new.  🙂

To prep, I’d picked up shirts over the summer and kept my eyes open for sales on white t-shirts.  When we saw a 50% off coupon for Michael’s we went in to look at what they had supply wise.  I was blown away with a HUGE store brand kit they had for $40, which I picked up for $20.  To compare, I think if I had purchased the Tulip sprays or the Tulip tie dye kits I would have spent over $70. 

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John and I watched different tutorials on the computer and found a blog or two with the design we wanted to copy.

John designed a Mickey Mouse head and cut it out of thin cardboard.  He traced the shape onto the shirts with pencil. 

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I then sewed a basting stitch around the outline with waxed dental floss.  I pulled the floss tightly and tied it off.  Then I wrapped a rubber band around the “Mickey head” that poofed out. 

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We then got the shirts wet and twisted them in a spiral shape, keeping the “Head” protruding out.

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We then soaked the shirts in soda ash for 30 minutes. 

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And got individual bags ready to store them in. 

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John held each shirt over the sink as I squirted onto the “head”.  Then we placed each shirt on its bag and filled in the rest of the colors. 
THAT was the easy part. 

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Since we had all this stuff out, we went ahead and made second shirts for 9 of the 10 travelers.  (Traveler #10 was okay without one.)

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The 19 bags rested overnight.

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The next evening, John unwrapped each one, cut off each band, and removed the dental floss while I was at work.  That took him forever given he was also providing for the care and feeding of 6 children.

He then washed them all in hot water and fluffed them in the dryer a few minutes before hanging them.

This is how some of them turned out.

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Clearly some Mickey heads are better than others.  Some spirals are better than others.  But they are certainly not hideous.

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The striped ones were less successful.  Despite all indications that we had drenched them to the point of ruining them (so we feared) we actually had them too tightly wrapped to get good color saturation.  Again, they are decent enough to wear, but we aren’t going into business making these. 

And I’d like to call this homeschool art, except even I won’t give dye to my kids.  We kept them far, far away during the process.  😉

AND – as Disney is completely changing their FastPass process, we might not even GO to WDW parks.  But we will wear them on the cruise.  And anywhere else a group of 10 might want to match.  (I’m taking suggestions.)

Square dancing with our PCC LEAH group

There was a family dance night with our homeschool group.  Or as Johanna called it, “The Ball.”

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I’m not convinced they are any clearer on the difference between a do-si-do and a promenade left…

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But we had a lot of fun.

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Marie and Tabitha kept Daddy’s dance card completely full. 

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Game night

We don’t do stuff on Hallowe’en and frankly, we were exhausted after four busy night’s worth of activities.  So we tremendously enjoyed getting our jammies on early and having a family game night. 

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Do you have any idea how loud Yahtzee is with 8 of us?

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“Who Can He Be?” 2013

Once again this year our church did a performance depicting Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. 

Last year the big four and I were in it.

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Because of my expecting and delivering Katriel, it was not possible for me to be part of the production this year.  Instead, John donned costumes and hit the stage.  He first played a townsfolk, then a Roman Solider.

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My sister, Kelly, was also part of the production.

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He was much more intimidating before he held the newborn.  😉

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Or the smiley almost-3-year-old.

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Johanna took to the stage, too.  Albeit, before the production started.  😉
What can I say?  It runs in the family?

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She has a role picked out for the future…?

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That Flashing Thing

“Hmmmm.  It seems every time my eyes are open that Mommy-lady is holding that big black thing in front of her face and making it light up.  She talks about something called, ‘Cheese.’”
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“Can you come up and bring your camera?”

John asked so innocently.  Then he asked me to lie on my back next to him and take photos of airplane-Johanna.
”Really?  You want me to get on the FLOOR?  All the way down there?  All 184.6 lbs of me? Will you help me get back UP?”
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I’m not still on the floor, obviously.  Winking smile
And the pictures were worth the exertion.

Father-Daughter Dance for American Heritage Girls

It was one of those weeks where fitting in ONE.MORE.THING. was going to hurt.  But Monday night at club, when the girls suddenly realized it was the week that AHG was having it’s Father-Daughter dance, they each turned and looked at me with hope-filled, beseeching eyes.  I had completely forgotten about it coming up.
Out came my cell phone, quick call to Daddy, “Could you, maybe, possibly, squeeze in a night of dancing… this Thursday.  Like three days away?” 
John’s reply was, “Do my girls want to go dancing?”
I admitted, “Oh.  Yes,” sigh, “yes.”
Somehow we got a dish-to-pass made.  We found dresses. Nan ironed them.  I braided one head.  John found a plaid shirt.  Then picked up a baby with a leaky diaper and got stained.  Found another plaid shirt.  It needed a button.  He sewed on another button while I braided another head.  And they stopped long enough for a picture before running out the door with huge smiles.  And yes, a little lipstick and blush.
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While they didn’t get any pictures of either girl WITH Daddy… they all assured me they got lots of turns dancing with him.
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