Blursday Chronicles–North Carolina hike

I made a friend online last summer from my Disney message board. 

After we realized we’d be moving to Greenville, she and I calculated that we’d only be about 90 minutes from one another. 

My girls and I were able to meet up with her and her girls in Saluda, North Carolina for a hike and lunch.

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Her oldest daughter was an expert salamander catcher, and she made Katriel’s day.

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It was so awesome to meet Michelle.  God links lives if we let Him.  A sister in the LORD in the midst of Disney talk is a special treat.

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Rainy days and driving away…

The plan was to be up and at ‘em early.  Head back to the house from the hotel to grab the cats and get on the road.

The packing supplies that our friends didn’t need had to be carried to the end of the driveway for the garbage pick up.

The cat carrying and computer load up situation was not as streamlined as we would have liked.

We got on the road a little later than we wanted to.

And it was pouring.

As I sit to type this almost 7 weeks later I remember just wanting to get on the road.  Having the goal in mind to get safely some 800 miles away.  There were no long good byes to an empty house.

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But seven weeks later I do get teary.

This was a GREAT PLACE to live and have our family.

The yard was getting to be too much.
The house needed some more updating.
The layout would not lend itself to our needs in the next half-dozen years or so.

But it was home and it was great.

The blursday chronicles.

I am writing these blog posts months late. 

We had weeks of “blursdays” squeezed together. 

The best part of them were that we did them together.

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Katriel was the only member of the family to try out the hotel pool.

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Marie and Tab got to hang out with friends at Lauren and Jocelyn’s house.  Their mom offered this last minute good-bye party.

I sat in a parking lot being *still* for a few hours listening to podcasters.

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Last day–ish…

The house was almost empty.

The girls and I had to hide in the basement most of the day.

Katriel enjoyed another impromptu play date with Madeline.

We are smiling. 

God does not change.

We can do this.

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They literally could not get everything in.  What is more is we had gotten rid of quite a bit of stuff between the assessment and the packing.  I can’t imagine what it might have looked like had we not gotten rid of many tables and desks and chairs and toys.

In the end, the men left a lot of their supplies behind as opposed to getting a second vehicle as the upcharge on renting more vehicles was far more than the cost of boxes and some dollies.

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Some photos are bitter sweet.

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We are off to the hotel.  Marie has to work tomorrow, so we will wait until Sunday to leave for SC.  That will give us time to visit Ba and Poppy and do some clean up back at the house.

THE BUSIEST WEEK blah blah blah–Thursday

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Anthony, Mike and Jeff just kept packing boxes as it got harder and harder to be in the rapidly deteriorating “home.”  As more and more of our accoutrements  got stowed the house felt far less welcoming and I started to get the intense desire to leave.

John and I got our last run in to Ridge Donut cafe.

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After a while it just was too awkward being at home, so the girls and I ran places…

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My dear friend Jen came by with her Holly to offer a goodbye, as well.

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By the end of the day there was almost no furniture and little semblance of home.

Honestly, saying goodbye to this wonderful house has been getting easier as the mess has ramped up.  It is a very weird sensation.

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THE BUSIEST WEEK OF MY LIFE–day three…

The day started with me realizing my Bible was not on that little brown table there in the first picture where it normally greets me in the morning.

Thankfully, there were only a few boxes in that room and one had the word, “Bible’” scrawled on it.

I opened that box carefully, as there was no chance I was going to go without my Bible for who knows how long…

In the box I found the following:
A wodge of paper, that when unwrapped revealed a small photo album from the China cabinet.
A second wodge of paper with a second photo album. 
A wodge of paper with my Bible, a reading text of Katriel’s, a small journal, and a plastic toy utensil.
Two large pillows from the couch.
A box of mittens and a box of scarves from the family room closet.

Oh… unpacking is going to be a riot!!

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My dear friend Christine picked up Katriel.  I ran errands and packed up our clothes and such. 

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Johanna, Tab, Marie and I went to the mall and then grabbed Taco Bell…. a first for sure.

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Johanna, Tabitha and Marie all went to the last night of youth group they will be here for.  Libby’s mom took this lovely photo.

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Here are a few my friend’s DL and TIffany took of Johanna on the slide.

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One of the things I am most sad about in leaving is that Johanna will not be part of the PCC Impact youth group.

Marie’s birthday…. in the midst of a VERY BUSY WEEK.

Nothing says, “Happy birthday,” like a giant truck backing into the driveway.

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We met Mike, Anthony, and .  These three men would spent the next 3-4 days with us packing up all of our belongings.

It got a little weird, to be honest. 
Marie asked for a yummy treat of pineapple cherry upside down cake and lemon bars for her birthday. 

As the men started working in the house we quickly realized that the kitchen would not be a reasonable place for me to be doing much work.  We also realized we had NO IDEA just what we were in for.

Thankfully, we have the kind of friends who love Jesus.  I was supposed to take Johanna to Alli’s, but Alli’s mom graciously offered to come for Johanna.  She also offered to make the lemon bars.

Christine picked up Katriel.

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Before dinner time, our house looked like this:
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Once they left, we had birthday dinner and a quiet celebration.

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We gave Marie some gift monies for Box Lunch to pick up some Loki gear.

And they were the best tasting lemon squares I have ever had.

Happy birthday, Marie.

THE BUSIEST WEEK OF THE DECADE–Day one

The calendar says our days are growing short here in NY.  With lots of packing and planning in the days to come, what is a mom to do?
Set up play dates.
Lots of them.
At 10AM I met my dear friend Nadine at Perinton Park so Katriel and her buddy Asher could have some fun play time together.

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It got even more fun when Nadine told them she could take them to the museum for the day. 

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Drop off got a little tense when they realized it could be a LONG time til they saw one another again.  We tried to keep the conversation chipper.

It’s going to be a hard week.

We love Asher to the moon and back.

our not last day at PCC

John flew home yesterday.  The packers come Tuesday and life shifts a lot in the weeks to come.

Tonight church was scheduled for an outdoor service, but rain made us move indoors.  An ice cream truck had been scheduled, and wise leaders didn’t cancel said truck.

It made for a long period of fellowship after the service, and time for photos.

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D.L. is the youth pastor at PCC and has been a friend to the four oldest Butlers (and me as well).  Hanny had just attended her first youth group last week. 

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I get teary each time I see this photo, even weeks later.  My kids are who they are in part because of DL’s teaching and mentoring.

Only one of these kids was born  when we first attended 20 years ago in the summer of 2001. 

This part isn’t easy.

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Noelle came to visit for the weekend.  We love her.  I hate to think how much time will pass before we see her again.

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I wish to the core of my being we didn’t feel the need to flee NY as strongly as we do. 

Trusting God.  Easy to say… now we are doing it with our feet, too.